Another BFN

Published June 24, 2009 by sweetashoney

My blood test on the 18th showed another big fat negative. No pregnancy. No baby. Yet again.
Everyday it seems to get a bit easier… I try not to think about it… I try not to think about thinking about it. It hurts

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5 comments on “Another BFN

  • Dear sweet,
    Don't be so sad.You are not alone in this situation. I have a brother and sister in law who haven't conceived for the past eight years, a friend who kept the bitter gall of infertility in her heart, many, many, so many more..do you wonder what Aishah felt as an 18 year old widow with no imprint of the Rasul's sojourn within her, forever? I guess the wise thing is to adopt, the better thing is to be sabar (patient) and taqwa, I have aslo friends who were childless for 10 years and when suddenly they conceive, they profilerated! So..don't be sad cause sadness is pervasive and will sour up your life. Remember Allah's names, the All Merciful, Compassionate,Love..He does not abandon His creations and He will certainly not abandon a lovely creature like you. Salam.

  • Dear sweet,
    Don't be so sad.You are not alone in this situation. I have a brother and sister in law who haven't conceived for the past eight years, a friend who kept the bitter gall of infertility in her heart, many, many, so many more..do you wonder what Aishah felt as an 18 year old widow with no imprint of the Rasul's sojourn within her, forever? I guess the wise thing is to adopt, the better thing is to be sabar (patient) and taqwa, I have aslo friends who were childless for 10 years and when suddenly they conceive, they profilerated! So..don't be sad cause sadness is pervasive and will sour up your life. Remember Allah's names, the All Merciful, Compassionate,Love..He does not abandon His creations and He will certainly not abandon a lovely creature like you. Salam.

  • Salaam

    I am so sorry to hear that it was a negative again.

    Remeber, keep on making dua – with Allah's help nothing is impossible!

  • Salaam

    I am so sorry to hear that it was a negative again.

    Remeber, keep on making dua – with Allah's help nothing is impossible!

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